When Christians Sound More Like the Crowd Than Christ
- Metropolitan John Gregory

- 2 days ago
- 4 min read
There are moments when I have to read a comment twice because I cannot believe another Christian wrote it.
Recently I came across the story of a man who abducted, sexually assaulted, and murdered a young girl. The details were horrifying. Every decent person should grieve for that child and her family. Justice demands accountability.
Then I read one of the first responses.
"May his death be as heinous and painful as it was for the girl he murdered. In the mighty name of Jesus."
I understand the anger.
I understand the heartbreak.
I even understand the desire to see justice done.
What I do not understand is invoking the name of Jesus to baptize vengeance.
That is not because the murderer deserves defending. He does not. It is because the name of Jesus does.
The Church has always confessed that Christ entered a world ruled by revenge and answered it with something entirely different. When Peter reached for a sword, Jesus told him to put it away. When crowds demanded blood, Jesus stood in silence. While nails were being driven through his hands, he prayed, "Father, forgive them."
The crowd that day was certain its violence was holy. Crowds usually are. That is the oldest lie in human history, and the cross dragged it into the light. On Friday the mob believed heaven stood behind them. On Sunday God overturned the verdict.
The cross is many things. It is justice, though not the kind the crowd demanded. It is reconciliation. It is victory over sin and death.
It is never permission for Christians to celebrate suffering.
Somewhere along the way American Christianity began confusing righteousness with outrage. We reward the quickest insult, the sharpest comeback, the most devastating condemnation. Social media has trained us to react before we reflect. Outrage is contagious. We catch it from one another, and the crowd that once gathered in the street now gathers in the comment section. Politics has taught us that mercy looks like weakness. Even churches have begun measuring faithfulness by how fiercely we oppose our enemies rather than by how deeply we love them.
The result is heartbreaking.
We are becoming fluent in anger while forgetting the language of Christ.
This does not mean evil should be ignored.
It does not mean criminals should escape justice.
It does not mean victims should simply "move on."
Justice matters because every human being bears the image of God, including the victim whose dignity was violated.
Yet Scripture insists on another truth that sits beside justice without contradicting it. We are forbidden from delighting in another person's destruction. Paul wrote to Christians living in the capital of an empire built on vengeance, "Do not repay anyone evil for evil." And again, "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Those words were not written for easy situations. They were written precisely because evil exists.
The Church was never meant to mirror the world's instincts.
We were meant to interrupt them.
The earliest Christians astonished the Roman Empire not because they sought revenge better than everyone else. They astonished the empire because they forgave. They rescued abandoned children. They cared for plague victims. They prayed for persecutors. They refused to answer violence with violence.
Even their enemies admitted it. The emperor Julian, who wanted nothing more than to see the Church fail, complained that the Galileans fed not only their own poor but the pagan poor as well.
That was their witness.
We traded that witness for winning arguments.
As Convergent Catholics, part of a communion that draws from the whole treasury of the Church, East and West, we speak often about recovering the faith of the ancient Church. Too often people assume that means older liturgies, richer symbolism, or an unbroken line of bishops reaching back to the apostles. Those things matter. They connect us to the historic Church and remind us that Christianity did not begin yesterday. But recovering the ancient Church also means recovering an ancient way of seeing people.
Every person is more than the worst thing they have ever done.
Every victim deserves justice.
Every sinner stands in need of mercy.
Every disciple is called to become more like Christ than like the culture surrounding them.
That calling is difficult because it runs against every instinct we possess. It asks us to pray for enemies when we would rather curse them. It asks us to leave vengeance in God's hands when we would rather carry it ourselves. It asks us to remember that if salvation depended on deserving mercy, none of us would stand.
This is where the Church has something unique to offer the world.
Not louder opinions.
Not better slogans.
Not another tribe competing for power.
We offer a different imagination altogether. One shaped by a crucified Messiah who defeated evil not by becoming more violent than evil, but by exhausting its power through self-giving love.
If the Church simply echoes the outrage of the age, we have nothing distinctive to say.
But if we become people whose lives look like Jesus, then we become what he called us to be.
The light of the world.
Not because we are brighter than everyone else.
Because we refuse to let darkness decide how we will live.




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